Monday, April 02, 2007

I learned a long time ago that you shouldnt say something unless its nice....
thus i have a problem with honesty, as in, im not honest when im upset with someone, because i wouldnt want them to assume thats the end all of it.. I have seen relationships end with less... and I value relationships. But how do you correct a person when they are being ugly -without becoming ugly yourself?
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3 comments:

Anonymous said...

and when your honest, is it the fear of the aftermath that keeps you from being honest, or the fear of hurting them?

2:19 AM
Mike said...

sometimes its the fear, morally its the hurting them.

2:48 AM
Anonymous said...

Is it really that the other is "being ugly" or that your reaction to them causes ugliness inside you?

11:07 AM

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